Why you actually hesitate

Most people assume hesitation means uncertainty: that you don’t yet know enough, haven’t thought it through, or need more confidence before you move. But for capable, high-functioning people, hesitation usually has a different cause.
It actually shows up when you’re tracking too much at once: consequences, timing, relationships, downstream effects, etcetera. No information is missing, but nothing has converged yet either. So you pause, even though the decision matters.
This short assessment shows you what your decision-making intelligence is doing under pressure, and at what point it starts to slow down.
If you’ve ever thought “I should be able to decide by now”, this assessment will make the pattern visible without reducing it to a mindset problem.
Take five minutes. Answer intuitively. As a result you will understand what’s actually happening, and what kind of clarity you’re really waiting for.

1 thought on “We-Mind vs. Me-Mind Assessment”

  1. Thank you so much Jessica for developing this survey and making it public. I discovered that I am more Me-minded that I thought :)) and this is a very positive news for me. I was expecting my results to be more We-minded, due to how I was raised. The feedback received is positive for me, because it means that the change (towards a more Me-mind approach) that I am trying to make works.

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